“You must have control of the authorship of your own destiny. The pen that writes your life story must be held in your own hand.” Irene Kassaria.
Have you ever thought about how boring life would be without challenges for which we can learn and grow? Everyone one of us has a 'million dollar story'. That is; the story that can inspire people because it shows how we came from one place and successfully moved to a new place. It is only a good story if you have risen up past it and have conquered it.
So, here is my challenge for you. Ask yourself these questions: What did you learn from some of the more horrific times of your life that can help someone else? How have you grown, changed, or improved as a result of surviving your life's challenges? How can you see yourself more as the conquering heroine and not the powerless victim?
When you find these answers, use them in your everyday language, written correspondence, and in your daily business encounters. Those are the words that you need to begin using.
Find the conquering part of you and begin to believe that part of yourself. Everything happens for a reason and everything happens to make us stronger.